Thank You St. Joseph!

It was through the God Squad many years ago that I was first introduced to a novena to St. Joseph. Since then I have prayed it many times asking for his intersession for many prayer intentions. I’ve also joined in the novena preceding the conference for the last ten- fifteen years. This past spring we were trying to sell our rental house and we heard that you should bury a statue of St. Joseph on the property and then the house would sell. We felt like maybe that was too superstitious, so we decided to should pray a novena to St. Joseph asking his intersession and protection over the sale of this house. Over the past 2 years we had the house listed privately and had many close deals, but they always fell through. Now we had listed it with a relator. It was the last week of June that we had started the novena and by day 8 we had received an offer on the house. Very interesting, God is so good! We had decided then that we would just keep praying the novena until the sale was closed. We were very excited. Our sister in-law shared that her parents had been trying to sell their farm for over two years without luck. We told her that we would add them to the novena. A week later they had their first legitimate offer and it went through! With a few minor bumps in the road, our own deal finalized at the end of August. Another special intention popped up, so we decided to keep going! We continued the novena in thanksgiving for everything God had done so far and to pray for the new intentions. This is a case where it has gone far beyond the usual 9 days! I just wanted to share the power of prayer with a novena prayer to St. Joseph.

Conference 2015

As I was reflecting about this year’s God Squad Men’s Conference, I was thinking about how the conference has affected my life over the last 15 years. For one, it’s always a great renewal for me during Lent. It has helped me grow in my faith in so many ways. I started attending as one of the “young guys” and now I have an 11 year old son asking when he can start coming to the conference! Men come to this conference from all age groups and I always look forward to seeing the friends I have made over the years. I think I look forward to the fellowship with these guys as much as the talks. I am excited about this year’s topic “Create in me a clean Heart.” I think it is important for us as Catholic Men to continue to give our hearts to God, so that he can make them clean. Confession is always one of the highlights of my faith, but it gives me particular joy to see men lining up for hours to go to Reconciliation at the conference.

A Simple Formula

A Simple Formula
Tim O’Connor, God Squad

I’ve been blessed over the past ten years to be part of the God Squad. And the blessings have extended to my family in ways that I never would have predicted. So I want to share part of this journey, and the special lesson it has had for me as a husband and father.

My first God Squad Men’s Conference was back in 2000 at the Red and White Club (at that time labeled “St Joseph’s Covenant Keepers Conference”). I was absolutely ‘blown away’ by the experience of seeing so many faithful Christian men gathered together for fellowship and common purpose. It was such a contrast to my ‘normal’, secular life, and it seemed to be an event so badly needed for men just like me.

Around the same time I was thinking about my young family and fretting about how I was ever going to be a good spiritual leader for them. It’s easy to be discouraged and feel inadequate – just turn on the television, computer or any form of media and you’ll see that non-Christian values take the main stage. And my family was being exposed to these mediums constantly – how was I going to lead them through this deluge of negative influences?

Shortly after the 2000 conference, I contacted Sean Lynn and volunteered to help out the God Squad with whatever they needed. From that point forward my role with the organization has grown along with my friendships with the other organizers and their families.

I also picked up one of Steve Wood’s books at the conference. I was encouraged by, and still remember vividly, an early paragraph from his book, “Legacy: A Father’s Handbook for Raising Godly Children”:

Practice your faith and remain in a state of grace; love your wife and stay married; be a good provider and tithe; and spend lots of time with your children. That’s how to be a good Christian man, husband and dad in a single sentence. Not too complicated.

I agreed – not too complicated. And I’m a huge believer in the keep-it-simple principle, so this sentence really resonated for me.

Of course there is an important and profound component to this statement that might not be initially obvious. Namely, that it’s really the Holy Spirit that is doing all the hard work with our families, all the ‘heavy lifting’. We just need to help make sure our hearts and homes are open to Him.

But I want to add one other element to Steve’s simple formula, one that I’ve come to realize since attending that first conference: Choose carefully who you spend time with and surround yourself with other faithful, Christian families.

I’ve been blessed to have had this opportunity over the past ten years. Through my close group of friends and an association with the other God Squad organizers and their families, my children have been exposed to exceptional young people who are living their faith. Those of you who are parents know that peer pressure can be a big influence for our children, especially teens, and often it’s the voice of the peer that is louder than the voice of the parent. So taking an early, proactive step towards who those peers are can be very powerful.

Through my association with other strong, Catholic families, my family and I have grown in our spiritual lives. We’ve attended Catholic family conferences, read Christian books, installed internet filters, had priests and God Squad Conference speakers to our home, studied through DVD courses as a family and spent many hours talking and learning together about our faith and spiritual life. Ten years ago I never would have predicted any of this, nor can I take much credit for it. But what I do know is that by associating with the right people my role as a husband and father is much better and easier.

So for me the formula is still simple: live the faith, love your wife, be a provider, spend time with your kids, and hang out with the right people. Then stand back and let the Holy Spirit do the rest.